.::happy morning::.

It's true!!

Life is all about pairing

Up and down

Happiness and sadness

Awesome and jerkiness

Good surprise and bad 1

Desire and REALITY!!

I love it

Life had taught me on how to be a tougher survivor

Day by day~~

oh!!

Thank God

What a surprise

Today...

I'm sitting in silence

While the sun rise

Through the window

The air embraced me tightly

Giving me a kind of calm feeling

yes, i'm back

I'm reaching the positive quadrant of emotions again!!

Thanks to you~~

picture grabbed from google

Have a merry morning everone..cheer up!!

Warm hug and big smile for you...

lalala~~~

.::a friendship::.

Lately, ada je problem yg datang..

The problem is, I'm not kinda girl who loves sharing my own personal problem with people. Because I believe that nobody else able to understand what you think or feel..

What a negative perception i owned..

eheh..

What a good friend i do have all these while but never realize their existence..

haish, my bad, my bad..

That's why la kot aku slalu depressed..

Keeping it to myself doesn't really help me as it gonna worsen my condition..

As this 2 days, i slowly learn on how to live my life again.

I can't really explain in here, but the most important thing is,

I know who really cared over me..

One have said:

"Lie is actually lies in the middle of believe.. "

When you put trust in people, don't forget that they are not you.

They will never be fair to you.

You are the one who determines the best for you!!

One of my best friend told me:

Sol, it's normal to have these kind of problems in relationship.

Make it simple and do not burden yourself.

Do not think too much, be patience.

"Mengalah doesn't mean you were kalah." i love the phrase.

He said:

Men doesn't like to be pushed and looked down. (But I think, girls do so) Just be aware of what you are doing, play safe.

He said too:

Men hardly confess their wrongdoing but give him some space to think over.

I'm not blaming him for all, but I did apologized from him.

it's ok...

Give him space.. space..

And the last thing he said:

Men hates to be 'maki'.

But then, don't make me angry!! that's all i need.

Understanding.

Tp aku pun, cpat je marahnye.. =p

The most important thing, he asked me to:

"sabala..jangan tensen..ceriakan diri anda...g la shopping ke, makan ke, nengok movie ke.."

The problem is, I've tried yesterday and I failed.

Planned nak g Sogo, shopping. Tgh jalan2, tukar.

Planned nk tgk movie "Princess and the Frog" kat Leisure mall pulak.. Jalan depan sikit, cancel lagi.

Last2 aku g TESCO blakang kolej ni je..

I'm in no mood~~

Betul la kate Mairul(kawan baru kenal masa program community),

the secret to be success is to be positive.

as positive as you can be!!

be positive Soleha~~~

Whatever it is, i'm a bit relieved and try to conceive what he told me to do. don't cry baby!! it's a WASTE!!!

Thanks to you, my good old friend (Azreen)!!

.::wahai malam::.

Today, I feel very empty.. unusual empty.. not as usual as I'm always smiling, laughing, joking and even contented in the heart.

picture credit to google

Tapi arini, sunyi sangat..

Like I'm living in my own world without any body else does exist. It was strange to me..

why??

Tengah jalan2 g TESCO petang tadi, aku terfikir:

It is RARE for people to remember other's kindness towards them

but

People ALWAYS remember what they've done to others

indeed

They will keep on talking about their SMALL contributions just to make them feel good

When you talk too much

Someday (when the time's come)

People will teach you on how to keep quite!!

-------------------------------------------------------------------------------

wahai malam

kesunyianmu telah membuatkan aku tertanya2

adakah engkau juga sedang merasakan kegelisahan hati ini

yang telah menghantui aku untuk beberapa malam kebelakangan

jika benar

terasa ingin aku memelukmu sambil berlutut

menitiskan air mata

tanda melepaskan segala bebanan

tanpa meluahkan sebarang kata

kerana

aku tidak lagi mampu menanggung kepedihan ini

wahai malam

sudikah kau menemani aku dengan memberikan aku sedikit kedinginanmu

bagi melunturkan sedikit amarah yang mula membara dalam hatiku?

insan

maafkan aku kerana membuatmu tersiksa

kerana membuatmu sedih dan kecewa

dengan ego dan sifat kurang mengerti kemahuanmu

kerana memaksamu

maafkan aku kerana sifat keanak-anakkan ku ini

kemanjaan yang berlebihan

sehingga kau merana

wahai malam

temani aku

dan jika kau mempunyai teman bayu

kirimkan harapanku kepadanya

maafkan aku dan tolong mengerti perasaan hati kecil yang menantinya di sini

picture credit to google

.:: people say::.

Anger is an emotion. Semua org pun tau..ape daa!! Based on wiki, anger is a natural and MATURE emotion experienced by all humans at times, and as something that has functional value for survival. But it neither be positive nor negative. Until YOU made it that way!!

True when people did say:

"It's dangerous when following one's heart IF one's heart was consumed by petty desires and personal revenge"

We are 1 when we were in front of each other

BUT

We don't even know who we are when we are apart

WHY??? (hate it)

But there is another people who did say:

"Anger can only be subdued if it expressed in WORDS and if those words are recognized by people"

A friend of mine suggesting this to me in order to handle my anger:

- determine whether or not it worth it if you get angry at things

- thinks of the consequences that may be lead by the anger

- put myself in the person's shoe (the person yang akan dimarah)

- make sure you calm down yourself first by practicing good breathing pattern

- take ablution (the power of water) try it!!

- ask person's opinion or simply just tell the other person especially the one you really trust in

Sometimes aku tertanya

Can I receive healing from God everytime?

The answer is, definitely YES...

with conditions:

Don't forget to pray and be good to people

Berusaha and then bertawakkal

"Anakku, apabila yang dikejar itu sesuatu yang tinggi dan mulia, maka banyaklah akibatnya dan panjanglah jalan untuk menuju ke sana" - Imam Ghazali (credit to here)

Kan senang if kita ikut je ape Islam da ajar.

Bila kita rasa marah, istighfar.

And the best yet the hardest part, buat bodo sudah..lalalala~~

.::final sem::.

final semester means:

increasing workload

increasing brain usage

increasing hopes

increasing tiredness

the end of my bachelor degree

means

the beginning of job hunting process

salary is meant for:

foods

clothes

parents

siblings

not for house or even a car for the first 6 months ok!!!

so

study harder

even smarter

no frequently dating

organize the schedule

dont forget to

PRAY!!

.::falter::.

No matter

how strong one's heart is..

Sometimes

there are things

that happen in life

that will make

one's heart

...FALTER...

.::never healing::.

if that was

what u wish

what u want

what u agree with

what else i can do?

cry..

i have no more tears

to be shed

if u were in front of me

i will throw a biggest and heaviest stone on your head

so that God might give u a new brand of head

to start think

wisely...

shit u jerk!!!

.::settlement::.

2 days without

i could see

i could hear

i could feel

what u think

it's a new feeling

new breath

new passion

reset the goals

the time is coming

new year

new hopes

new changes

a better changes

it was called as

~~my settlement~~

tQ

.::girl say,boy say::.

girl say:

awak hanya pandai menakluk hati saya.

tapi awak xtau camane nak jaga die. saya cuma perlukan belaian dan perhatian.

boy say:

awak ni tau nak saya ada untuk awak je. saya ada banyak hal nak dibuat.

apa xcukup ke perhatian saya selama ni?

girl say:

memang xcukup!!!

.::umie::.

It's boring..

So boring..

Hoiyeah!!!

I'm bored...

Umie g kursus kt kL...

Baru je 2jam die g, umah da rasa sesangat la kosong..

Umie..

Miss u..

So much..

Kek tie saket pale la tibe2..

Wish u were here

Talking to u

Gossiping..

Laughing..

Even though u're not talking

As u were tired

We glad to see u sleep

To feel ur breath..

We misses you...

Much...

.::redha::.

Alhamdulillah..

everything was fine and I don't wanna lost it anymore...even though it doesn't seem to be as nice as we had gone through before but I wish it to stay the way it was. It's better for him to treat me this way so that I would not hurt him anymore..

What ever it is, thank God because He made he to give me a call at last... he called me...yeay!!!

He want to see my eyes. Maybe he wants to look for the eyes that he fell in love for the last 3 years in mine. Even though he asked me to look at the laptop webcam, I don't have a gut to stare long.

He want me to made a promise. I do not want to but, I have to because he want me to. Even though he knows it was hard for me too.

God, help me. I'm begging you..

Tonight, I am relieve!!! I want too rest in peace~~~

tQ sayang...

.::hurt me again::.

kenapa?

kenapa aku? kenapa aku ada sifat buruk ni?

kenapa aku minta orang lain memahami aku sedangkan aku xpernah cuba untuk memahami orang lain?

kenapa aku merayu pada benda yang pasti bukan milik aku?

kenapa aku xpernah berusaha untuk berubah sedangkan aku sedar kelemahan diri?

kenapa aku selalu mengulangi kesilapan hinggakan diri aku sendiri terhina?

kenapa aku terlalu suka melihat keperitan orang lain demi kebahagiaan diri sendiri?

kenapa aku xpernah bersyukur dengan semua yang ada?

kenapa aku??

aku dibesarkan oleh ustazah

aku dididik dengan ilmu agama yang cukup

aku pergi sekolah agama bertahun2

mak, umie n abah ajar aku mengenali Tuhan

tapi kenapa aku xpernah menggunakan ilmu yang ada?

aku ni takabur

aku ni riak

aku ni hina

aku ni insan yang xpernah bersyukur

ya Tuhanku,

andai ku tahu..

ampunilah aku...

entry ni ditulis sebab ada 1 insan mulia dah sedarkan aku dengan kata-katanya:

'selama aku dengan kau pun, kau bukan tunjuk aku jalan ketuhanan pun'

terima kasih..

i'm only me when i'm with you

Friday night beneath the stars

In a field behind your yard

You and I are paintin' pictures in the sky

And sometimes we don't say a thing

Just listen to the crickets sing

Everything I need is right here by my side

And I know everything about you

I don't wanna live without you

I'm only up when you're not down

Don't wanna fly when you're still on the ground

It's like no matter what I do

Well, you drive me crazy half the time

The other half I'm only trying

To let you know that what I feel is true

And I'm only me when i'm with you

Just a small town boy and girl

Living in a crazy world

Trying to figure out what is and isn't true

And I don't try to hide my tears

The secrets or my deepest fears

Through it all nobody gets me like you do

And you know everything about me

I'm only up when you're not down

Don't wanna fly when you're still on the ground

It's like no matter what I do

Well, you drive me crazy half the time

The other half I'm only trying

To let you know that what I feel is true

And I'm only me when i'm with you

When I'm with anybody else it's hard to be myself

Only you can tell

I'm only up when you're not down

Don't wanna fly when you're still on the ground

It's like no matter what I do

Well, you drive me crazy half the time

The other half I'm only trying

To let you know that what I feel is true

And I'm only me when i'm with you

And I'm only me

Who I wanna be

Well, I'm only me when i'm with you

.::call::.

I called him by 4am last night and he hung up the phone right after the line wass connected. Which means that he still awake freshly by that exactly 4am.

What the heck is he doing? The background sound.

It's very loud and annoyed me as he needs me to repeat everything i've said for many times.

And what on earth am I doing for calling someone that hates me the most by 4 in the morning? Absolutely no nice answer for that.

But you know what? Our conversation only goes like this:

Me : Awak xnak balik ke,da pagi ni. balik la rumah...

He :Tak nak.

Me :Awak cakap la elok2 dengan saya, please...

He :tak nak.

Me :Awak balik rumah ye, saya tunggu awak. kite chat kat YM k...

He :Tak nak.

He : Saya xnak dengar dah la suara awak. Bosan.

Me : speechless.

What else am I waiting for? Still hoping for the thing that has been done perfectly as my wish before. I'm the one who asked for break-up but now aku pulak macam orang gila talak. WHY ME??

He hates you, Soleha.

Stop making yourself fool.

Stop giving him trouble.

Enough for everything you have done.Can't you see it clearly?

He HATES you!!!

.::at this moment::.

Datanglah sayang dan biarkanku berbaring

Dipelukanmu, walau untuk sejenak

Usaplah dahiku dan kan kukatakan semua

Bilaku lelah tetaplah di sini

Jangan tinggalkan aku sendiri

Bilaku marah biarkan ku bersandar

Jangan kau pergi untuk menghindar

Rasakan resahku dan buat aku tersenyum

Dengan canda tawamu, walau untuk sejenak

Kar’na hanya engkaulah yang sanggup redakan aku

Kar’na engkaulah satu-satunya untukku

Dan pastikan kita selalu bersama

Kar’na dirimulah yang sanggup mengerti Aku

Dalam susah ataupun senang

Dapatkah engkau selalu menjagaku

Dan mampukah engkau mempertahankanku …

Bilaku lelah tetaplah di sini

Jangan tinggalkan aku sendiri

Bilaku marah biarkan ku bersandar

Jangan kau pergi untuk menghindar

(Sheila on 7 - buat aku tersenyum)

.::soul-mates::.

...SOUL-MATES...

are people who brings out

the best in you

They are not perfect

BUT

...always being perfect for you...

.::3 in the morning::.

.::a brand new person-to-be::.

There is 1 person that I knew since last 3years and this guy came into my world with his own values that could never be compared with others...

With belief that each person is unique and has his own fate and destiny, I committed into 1 kind of relationship. As love make people lives just like in a battle field, we needs heart to be open and brain to function wisely so that none of us could hurt in the war...

...We are human...

Sometimes both of us failed to do so but we do overcome the pressure successfully..Nothing change unless our feeling becomes intense to each others day by day..

I was born in a family of five but was raised by my aunt since I was 3 as the only-pampered-baby gurl~~~

I was able to get almost everything that I wished from my new-parents BUT I never asked it nicely... I never being ignored ever since and being pampered whole-heartedly...

So,ever since I've been in a hearty-relationship-thingy, I did expect to be treat the same way as I used to be during my childhood and teenage years...Every single thing that doesn't fulfill my requirement will be matter to me.. I wish that every people would please me just like what my parents ever does to me all this while...

...But,it is wrong...

I turned into an aggressive person, hot-tempered for a tiny issues, being unfair to the people that loves me if they don't be able to be exactly like what I wish them to be, and many more...

The people that loves me,has been HURT..

I hurt the person that loves me most all these years...

I make them hurt...

Making everything turned upside-down in a second..

You know why?

All of you do know why this had happened to me?

Does anyone of you can make a guess what is the main problem with me?

It's all about my shit-fucking-asshole-mouth I ever had...

I've been regret..

I've been slept with all tears all night long..

BUT

What has done cannot be undone...

I've tried to think the best way to ask for apology..

I couldn't ever find it...

Because

All these while, I've made a decision upon YOUR opinions and help...

Up to now, I couldn't even think how am I gonna push my life ahead...

Up to now, I couldn't even feel what life could ever be without you...

Up to now, I couldn't even say an appropriate word when talking to others...

As I only can think that you are the other half of me in living our lives..

As I only can feel that you are the only person who might be with me, all the time, all my life...

As I only can say a nice thing to people when I know there's you who need me to be wise to other...

But now

There's no more YOU

There's no more LOVE from you

There's no more CARE from you

There's no more NIGHT WISH from you

I miss you baby..

Really

I mean it..

I'm sorry for being harsh to you all these while..

I never imagined to be left apart...

Please forgive me..

Please help me...

Please show me the right way to do everything all over again..

I will never hurt you anymore...

I will never ever make you upset anymore...

Please..

I'm kneeling you down baby..

Can't you feel the same way as I do?

I love you...

.::mistakes::.

People will always see and able to see other's wrongdoing but never theirs..

sometimes I did this. I do admit it...

BUT

surely

I hate and cannot stand people who loves to blame others in order to get over their mistakes...

.::apekah::.

Sebenarnye xde ape pun nk tulis...

Cuma ada satu benda yg asyik sgt berlegar2 kt dlm pale otak nih...

I don't like people who never give anything but always ask others to do something he/she may benefit from...

Kind of jerk man!!!

Lagi satu kalau asyik2 nk org lain buat exactly like what she/he did...

If not, it is wrong.

No 3x.

Actually its not wrong, but totally wrong!!

Bagi die ni, biar apa pun reason org tu, die xnk tau..

Yang penting, dari segi pandangan 'die' ni, orang tu da buat 1 big mistake.

Stupid!!!

Korang pernah xrasa nak muntah bila someone is telling a story to u because they were telling a bad side of people, always.. like 24-7??

Im sorry, can't take it...

I have to avoid it...

I am avoiding u because u cannot be stopped...

Eby, u know everything...

Tq for listening to me...

.::raye yang pelik::.

Raya kali ni kitorg xbuat korban pn... cuma jojo je la, tu pun buat untuk aqiqah Zarif... neway, even xsesibuk last year, suasana tu still ada... masa aku sampai umah, Cik Yie da dtg sejak semalam lagi.. Cik Yie adik abah aku yg tinggal kat Lumut, Perak... Sebab wan aku dok kat umah kitorg since die xberapa sihat kebelakangan ni...

Dari semalam Umie ngan adik aku, amah da buat preparation memasak... so, Arini aku sampai je semua da nk siap.. tinggal hidang je... this time, umah kitorg ada 2 menu je... first, nasi dagang. uols kalau datang boleh pilih sama ada nak makan ngan kari ayam atau pun ikan... and the second, macam biasa, kitorg buat satay... tu pun masak guna oven je.. xde bakar2 nye.. xcukup staff nk buat bakar...

Petang kitorg buat sup tulang ngan daging bakar guna daging... sedap nye daging korban..sangat empuk... yelah, fresh lg kn.. lagipun mmg sebab daging tu daging yg berkat kot... eheee

bila da xde org datang umah, kitorg pn online meramai2 sampai terlelap... bapak boring.. xpaham... kawan aku kate nk dtg umah... tup2, senyap je.. malas nak follow up.. kang kata paksa pulak..

Lepas isyak kitorg gerak g umah Cik La pulak, ni pun adik abah.. konon2 nye nk buat barbeque... memang la buat.. tp kitorg xrasa sebab semua laki yang buat kt luar.. kitorg tukang main baby ngan tukang makan je kat dalam.. syok jgk sebenarnye.. ngeee

Maybe Umie ngan abah xtau nk buat apa kat umah, lama gila kitorg terdampar kat umah Cik La... almost 11.30 mlm, baru kitorg gerak balik...

Ape yg pelik nye di sini adalah dar segi cara sambutan raya... macam agak lengang... maybe sbb jiran kitorg pn xde... semua balik kg kot... kitorg je berkampung kt situ...

Kuih pn xbsanyak... ada pun just ketupat manis ngan ketupat lemak.. aku suka... neway, sok aku nk ajak tentera2 aku try buat walnut cheese cake lah.. xtau jd ke x, tp aku nk cuba buat something yg mungkin blh memeriahkan lagi suasana...

p/s: i will update about my cake ok... c u then...

.::beraye dalam bas::.

Tepat jam 8.45 mlm,aku tiba di Perhentian Putra... terus g serbu kaunter tiket tanye kat mane bas yg aku akn naik pasni...ye la, bas tambahan... da penuh,die gerak lah..9.15 mlm aku pn gerak...

Ptg td abg bwk aku g bukit permai lg... best, walaupun xsetinggi bukit ampang and xada restaurant, scenery die still tip top!!!

Abg janji aku balik cuti nt die nk bwk aku g tgk movies from morning sampai mlm... i'll redeem it hook or by crook...

Neway, berbalik pd story raye aku... jalan raya tersangat lah famous sbb semua org berpusu2 berkumpul dan berlumba2 bermain di atas nya... tp diorg xmoh ajak bas main sekali...so, terpaksa lah bas merangkak2 ditepi bahu jln sahaja... disebabkan ke-nyet2-an pergerakan, maka aku tiba di Kelantan by 7.50am... abah aku pn siap2 bertakbir dah kt surau... seb bek amah ada nk amek aku...huhu..

Da la xsolat subuh, semayang raye pn xdan...uwaaaaaa~~~

Masa atas bas aku duk dgn sorg akak ni... kak Anis.. die ni buat bisnes computer... cm best je... tau2 je la, aku ni gile bisnes... sbb xde duet je, so hasrat aku terbantut.... xpe2..aku tgh usaha kn ni... uols pn tggu k... my bisnes-thingy is coming soon... abg invest his money for d first time...ang i hope it to be as success as i wish...

K lah... nk beraya plk...salam eid Adha...

.::termination::.

Tepat jam 10.45pagi td, maka tamatlah sem 1 final year aku...

hoho...

Happy!!!!!!!!!!! happy!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

semua org da balik raye..

amah da balik 2minggu lpas lg..

adek plk minggu lepas..

jojo, kak iela and zarif da balik semalam...

tinggal aku terkapai2 tunggu pukul 9.30 mlm ni,naik bas tambahan...first time dalam idop aku naik bas tambahan..teruk nye rase...

Neway,

d time yg aku plg xsuke da pn tiba... i dun like d feeling but i have to face it anyway...

happy to get back home and at the same time feeling down to say good bye to 'kL'...

dun u get me?

i got u...

ekekekkekek...

k lah...wish u a happy eid adha... jaga jari jangan main pisau or lari2 takot terjatuh kat tempat sembelihan lembu plk..

wa ilalliqa' ma'as salamah...

.::worst part of me::.

Teruk nye exam arini...

rase cam nak nanges...

nanges sesungguh2 hati... betul ni...

dapat rase x ape aku tengah rase sekarang? nak ngadu kat sape ni...

ade org paham x ape aku tengah cakap ni... ade x??

jawab lah aku tanye ni...

eby...wake up la sayang...

I know U did a very hard for me to find the calculator...

but I didn't mean all of this to happen...

credit to Anep for lending me ur calc...

but seriously,

I need a shoulder to cry on.... plz3~~~

.::look into my interest::.

I've been thinking this for many times and I've discussed it in depth with someone I believe in... I nk try jela.. tp after sem baru da mula nt lah... guna modal die cket...

Really hope uols could give support and I'm not disappointed with it...

.::ciri2 lelaki idaman::.

Korang ingat x cerita cinderella, sleeping beauty and etc. I mean, cerita2 dongeng yang ada heroin yang cantik dan hero yang bapak ensem and macho.. Its like I've started imagining those kind of things since emmm...since the moment I watched those kind of movies lah...orang kate, angan2 tu penting for real thing to happen...

I'm sure uols pun pernah terfikir benda yang sama dengan I kan.. alaa..ngaku jelah... even though paper exam in just next 2 hours from this second, tetibe je rasa nk menulis ciri2 lelaki idaman yang aku selalu harap2 kan... setiap perkara yang ditulis tidak mempunyai sebarang kaitan dgn yang masih hidup atau pn telah pergi...

1. Prihatin

Aku nak laki yang boleh dengar dengan teliti dan ini bukan bermaksud lelaki yg bertelinga lebar ok.. tak nak yang masuk telinga kiri keluar telinga kanan.

2. Penawar

Dia mesti rajin dan pandai memberikan kata-kata keramat untuk dijadikan penawar hati. walaupun sometimes kurang rupa, tidak mengapa.. sebab aku ni senang sangat menghadapi kemungkinan untuk ditimpa sakit dari sakit mata sampai sakit jiwa raga. So, hati ni amat perlu dijaga; dan hanya kata-kata manis dan betul susunan nahunya akan menjadi penawar segala bisa.

3. Kebebasan

Kebebasan tu bukanlah sampai melanggar batas-batas hukum, tetapi berupa hak. Contohnya bila pergi window shopping... biarkan aku pegang, belek, sentuh, angkat dan letak barang2 yg aku suka tanpa bantahan... Kalau da kawen nt, bila berada di dalam kedai perabot, aku berhak untuk mengangkut sebanyak mana barangan yang dikehendaki, kecuali tokey kedai tu..lelaki cuma perlu senyum saja. Jika hendak melarang pun, gunakanlah suara selembut bayu.

4. Wangi

Biasalah, fitrah perempuan..dicipta untuk menyukai sesuatu yang bersih dan cantik.. lagi2 nak jalan sebelah aku, xkn nk g tgk wayang dgn org macam pelarian...Kalau nak markah lebih tinggi, kenakan wangi-wangian selalu, mandi dan berendamlah dalam botol minyak wangi.

5. Sopan

Dalam erti kata yang lain, mereka sentiasa rela dan redha menyerahkan wang ke tangan aku. Bukan untuk dikuasai, tapi inilah cara paling baik untuk menjaga kesihatan bersama dan kemaslahatan umum seperti mengawal jumlah asap rokok yang disedut sang suami. Paling penting langkahnya pun tidaklah terlalu panjang dan matanya pun tidaklah terlalu liar untuk memandang perempuan-perempuan lain.

6. Beriman

Sumpah, inilah aspek utama yang akan dilihat walaupun kadang2, perbuatan time dating tu macam da xkenal sape2 kt dunia... dan xdilupakan, lelaki itu juga perlu membawa anak-anak ke rumah ibadat, bukannya sekadar menjadi driver menghantar anak2 sahaja.

7. Bijak

Yang dapat melihat pelbagai pengaruh buruk cuba merosakkan hidupnya tapi tanpa ragu-ragu berkata "TIDAK"... tapi pastikan yang perkara itu, bukanlah aku...

8. Tolak ansur

Yang ni sape2 pn xakan teragak2 untuk memilikinya... jarang lelaki nk buang ego dan tunduk pada kesalahan mereka. biasanya mereka ni datang dari golongan yang idup xjejak tanah... aku akan pastikan lelaki aku itu tidak malu berkata; “Saya minta maaf, sayalah yang bersalah.”

9. Pemurah

Pemurah kat sini, maksudnya yang sentiasa tersenyum, merendah diri dan mesra dengan sesiapa sahaja tanpa mengira darjat dan kedudukan. satu lagi ciri yang aku selalu cari...mungkin lelaki hari ni xpernah dengar 'senyum adalah sebahagian daripada sedekah'... xpe, kalu xdapat pn, nt aku boleh ajar...

10. Sedar diri

Lelaki idaman aku ni jgk perlu sentiasa berusaha untuk menjadi contoh terbaik kepada anak-anak. bukan hanya beromong kosong macam cerita si luncai dan biri2 nye..eh, betul ke? ape2 jelah...

Aku rasa cukup lah kot ciri2 yang tersenarai ni... lg pn, da nk kena siap2 g exam... wish aku good luck k... oh, sesape yg rase die ada ciri2 yang tercatat kat atas ni, sile lah tinggalkan jejak anda supaya blh dihubungi kemudian hari...

Ingatlah, semua tu hanyalah CIRI-CIRI LELAKI IDAMAN.... bila kata idaman..ia memang amat jarang menjadi kenyataan kan..aku ada terbaca satu laman ni, dan aku dak petik dah pun untuk dijadikan tatapan uols... ianya berbunyi:

"SESUNGGUHNYA..LIDAH WANITA ITU AKAN MENJADI SEMAKIN TAJAM APABILA LIDAH LELAKI MENJADI SEMAKIN BERCABANG!!!"